If you enjoyed the Mother's Day profiles, then hopefully you'll find June's celebration of local dads of toddlers and preschoolers just as fun and informative. If you know a worthy dad that should be profiled we've got lots of room to add more dads over the coming days and like I always say, the more the merrier.
Anyone interested in participating can submit their responses to this questionaire by email.
We also have a new prize for the month of June! Gingersnap is donating a $50 gift certificate to be drawn for at the end of the month, so sign up as a Follower and your name will automatically be entered in the draw.
Watch for the winning name tomorrow for the Little Life Back pack. Today is your last chance to sign up as a Follower to get in on the draw.
Monday, May 31, 2010
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Local Mom: Shoshanna
Today's featured St. John's mom is Shoshanna! See this months other local moms here.
Occupation: Stay at home mom & writer
Age: 39
Number of children and ages: Ava: 19 months
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?:
I wanted to be a professional ballet dancer or a professional vagabond, travelling the world and living out of a suitcase. Since I spend most of my time either writing on the computer or playing with my daughter, I’d say no, the reality doesn’t match up.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
I’m still nursing my toddler, which means I haven’t gotten a full night’s sleep in a year and a half. I’d say that’s the hardest part for me.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Everything else. Watching Ava learn new things, playing and dancing to her favorite songs, cuddling at naptime. Experiencing joy every day is a new experience and worth every missed hour of sleep.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Attached. We do everything together. Really I don’t really subscribe to a particular style. I just try to pay attention to what’s she is telling me with her body language, engage with her as much as I can, and talk to her while I’m doing chores.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Best advice: Take care of yourself. It’s important to be well balanced, happy, rested (as much as you can) and fulfilled. Taking time out to do the things you enjoy is not selfish. A happy mom is a good role model. And you’ll have more energy and patience in the long run.
Worst advice: Lalalala. I wasn’t listening.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
How much fun it is.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Self-aware, independent, and empathetic.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
I write at home when I can, but I’m a stay at home mom. Still, it’s a challenge to find the time I need for myself. I’m lucky to have a partner who gets it and who loves engaging with our daughter. They have father-daughter time and I work on my own stuff.
Occupation: Stay at home mom & writer
Age: 39
Number of children and ages: Ava: 19 months
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?:
I wanted to be a professional ballet dancer or a professional vagabond, travelling the world and living out of a suitcase. Since I spend most of my time either writing on the computer or playing with my daughter, I’d say no, the reality doesn’t match up.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
I’m still nursing my toddler, which means I haven’t gotten a full night’s sleep in a year and a half. I’d say that’s the hardest part for me.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Everything else. Watching Ava learn new things, playing and dancing to her favorite songs, cuddling at naptime. Experiencing joy every day is a new experience and worth every missed hour of sleep.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Attached. We do everything together. Really I don’t really subscribe to a particular style. I just try to pay attention to what’s she is telling me with her body language, engage with her as much as I can, and talk to her while I’m doing chores.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Best advice: Take care of yourself. It’s important to be well balanced, happy, rested (as much as you can) and fulfilled. Taking time out to do the things you enjoy is not selfish. A happy mom is a good role model. And you’ll have more energy and patience in the long run.
Worst advice: Lalalala. I wasn’t listening.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
How much fun it is.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Self-aware, independent, and empathetic.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
I write at home when I can, but I’m a stay at home mom. Still, it’s a challenge to find the time I need for myself. I’m lucky to have a partner who gets it and who loves engaging with our daughter. They have father-daughter time and I work on my own stuff.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Kid friendly activities in St. John's - Open for the 2010 summer season:
Salmonier nature park opens June first! This is a great place to take your children to explore nature and go for a lovely walk
Lesters Farm reopens on May 28th - great for kids to see where their food comes from and there seems to be always something new to do there as the season unfolds.
Bowring Park Swimming Pool
Address: Waterford Bridge Road Bowring Park West Entrance
Telephone: (709) 576-7708 (Pool Schedule)
Hours of Operation: July and August
Monday - Sunday 11:00 am - 7:00 pm
Bannerman Park Swimming Pool
Address: Bannerman Road
Telephone: (709) 576-7671 (Pool Schedule)
Hours of Operation: July and August
Monday - Sunday 11:00 am - 7:00 pm
Lesters Farm reopens on May 28th - great for kids to see where their food comes from and there seems to be always something new to do there as the season unfolds.
Bowring Park Swimming Pool
Address: Waterford Bridge Road Bowring Park West Entrance
Telephone: (709) 576-7708 (Pool Schedule)
Hours of Operation: July and August
Monday - Sunday 11:00 am - 7:00 pm
Bannerman Park Swimming Pool
Address: Bannerman Road
Telephone: (709) 576-7671 (Pool Schedule)
Hours of Operation: July and August
Monday - Sunday 11:00 am - 7:00 pm
Friday, May 28, 2010
Local Mom: Andrea
Occupation: Physiotherapist:Yoga Instructor
Your Age: As the French say, I have 39 years.
Number of children and ages: Gerry (3 years); Helena (4 Years)
What is the hardest thing about being a mom? Being a mom
What is the best thing about being a mom? Being a mom
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
A team approach. I realized quickly into this parenting endeavor that I couldn’t do it alone. I have a great partner and community. Here is the shout out to Sean Panting and to all our peeps! Thank you. I love you and man do I ever appreciate you!
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Appreciated: I worked with children and their families for 12 years. And I met many exceptional parents. I ran into one of these parents just after my first child was born ( Hi Tina!!). I was worried about everything. If I was breastfeeding right, using the right bum cream, stimuating her with the right toys. In my moment of peek panic, Tina turn to me and said, “all you have to do is love them.” She was right. Thanks Tina.
Caution: A new mother doesn’t need to hear about every detail of your baby’s 6-12 month experience with colic. I am just saying.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
Holy mother of God, how much laundry does one baby produce!Let alone two!?
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
That they have a solid sense of self, a sense of place and a sense of the world and their place in it.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Wine and chocolate.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Wine and chocolate.
What I have learnt the most thus far being a parent?
For me, having children has been a dynamic relationship. Hopefully I have taught them a few good things and in return, they have taught me about the wonderment of life and learning; they have allowed me to face fear and conquer it; they have shown me what is truly important in this life.
Ps…It has also taught me how luxurious is it to get a shower all by myself….with the door closed.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Alternative Education Project for St. John's Children
If you haven't heard about it already, there is a movement afoot to start an alternative school in St. John's. This weekend there is a meeting and you can find the information here on the Four Winds Alternative School Project Facebook Page.
If you are interested in an alternative education for your kids, here are some links you might find interesting:
Halifax Independent School
Whole Child Education
Natural Child Project
If you are interested in an alternative education for your kids, here are some links you might find interesting:
Halifax Independent School
Whole Child Education
Natural Child Project
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Local Mom: Donna
Occupation: Fine art photographer specializing in babies and kids and part time Mother Goose teacher.
Your Age: 32
Number of children and ages: 3 kids, ages 11, 8, 3
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
In my high school yearbook next to my grade 12 graduation photo it states that I wanted to be a doctor and have 2.5 kids. What it did not state was that I wanted to be an obgyn. I have always loved pregnancy and birth and babies and kids. Life takes twists and turns and now I don't deliver babies but I do photograph pregnancy and birth and babies and kids and am very happy with that. I also have more than 2.5 kids so in the end I've surpassed all my own expectations
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Those moments where you want to close your eyes and hope that when you open them the sight in front of you has changed because you know that there is no one going to help you. Things like the dog shredding a diarrhea diaper all over your bed or your toddler delighted with himself after pouring the full bag of sugar all over the kitchen.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Homemade cards and sticky kisses and watching these creatures that look like you and act like you but are not you. It's pretty cool.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it? With the little ones I am very attached, co-sleeping. Breastfeeding, all that good stuff. I think babies need their mamas and mamas need their babies. As they grow I think I am relaxed with high expectations. I am a stickler for manners and good behavior but I don't care if they clean their rooms or match their socks.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
The best piece of advice was about bath time: turn off the hot water first to avoid scalds. The worst was this idea that you need a change table. Save that money and buy more receiving blankets. You can never have enough receiving blankets.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
I wish someone would have told me that they will be coming by to clean my house once a week, forever.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I hope they remain kind, generous and healthy. I also hope that they become independent enough to want to blaze their own trail and not want to live with mom and dad into their 20's.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
I think a balance is a myth. It implies that I am more than one person. In reality I am just Donna. Donna is a mother, a wife, a photographer, a sister, a baker of pies, a runner, a joker, a lover of both solitude and chaos. I am all of these things and more no matter what hat I might be wearing at the time. Life is less like a balancing scale than it is like a garbage bag: try and cram everything in there without it ripping open.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Well when I want a break from the kids I go to work. When I want to break from work I hang out with the kids. Working from home is good like that. Also I like to go running. It's great because it's just me and an ipod and I can listen to music with cursing.
This last question is an open one – if you feel there is something you’d like to add that doesn’t fit into the questions I have written – here’s a chance to add and answer your own question.
My advice for new moms: Enjoy it!! Play!! Try and go with your gut and don't stress out. When mama is happy, everyone is happy. You can replace *happy* with any other emotion and that statement still holds true.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Good food for kids... and parents too!
The other kind of fast food. I saw these Two Ingredient Biscuits on a friend's facebook page a week or so ago and it inspired me to compile a list of fast recipes for busy parents... some are kid-friendly and some are just for when the kids are gone to bed...
Zucchini Carpaccio - Use store-bought ricotta and this is a gourmet breeze of a salad. A mandoline or V slicer will make it even easier.
Two-hour turkey and gravy - easiest Christmas or Thanksgiving Turkey EVER!
Linguine with Mussels and Herbs - couldn't be easier or cheaper
Crustless Quiche
Zucchini Ribbons - you can make this whole recipe if you want to, but the best part of this is the zucchini ribbons. They can be tossed in pasta, served as a side dish alone, or mix with carrot ribbons for a gorgeous veggie alternative to pasta. Here's another idea.
Shrimp Saganaki - Delicious, don't substitute tomatoes use plum as they suggest and get yourself a loaf of Georgestown Bakery bread to have with it.
La Bete Noire - Best chocolate cake ever!! Always have this for my husbands birthday party. Baccalao has a version on their menu too. (By the way - the translation is - The Black Beast.)
Zucchini Carpaccio - Use store-bought ricotta and this is a gourmet breeze of a salad. A mandoline or V slicer will make it even easier.
Two-hour turkey and gravy - easiest Christmas or Thanksgiving Turkey EVER!
Linguine with Mussels and Herbs - couldn't be easier or cheaper
Crustless Quiche
Zucchini Ribbons - you can make this whole recipe if you want to, but the best part of this is the zucchini ribbons. They can be tossed in pasta, served as a side dish alone, or mix with carrot ribbons for a gorgeous veggie alternative to pasta. Here's another idea.
Shrimp Saganaki - Delicious, don't substitute tomatoes use plum as they suggest and get yourself a loaf of Georgestown Bakery bread to have with it.
La Bete Noire - Best chocolate cake ever!! Always have this for my husbands birthday party. Baccalao has a version on their menu too. (By the way - the translation is - The Black Beast.)
Monday, May 24, 2010
Local Mom: Susan
Today's featured St. John's Mom is Susan. Read about all the local moms we featured this month.
Occupation: Communications Officer but currently on extended leave.
Age: ( 33
Number of children and ages: Alec 16 months
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
My life now is close to what I expected but I thought I would be a dancer. Now the only dancing I do is to Beyonce’s “Single Ladies” in my kitchen to entertain my son. He loves it!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Feeling so vulnerable…my whole world depends on Alec’s health and happiness…or getting up three times a night.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Alec’s whole world is about his “Mama” at least for now.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
I think I would say loving, compassionate and attentive.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
The best piece of advice I got was to trust my instincts. The worst piece of advice I got was to let him cry it out – not for me (see answer #6).
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
If you breastfeed, you’re nipples are going to hurt really, really bad!
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I hope Alec is a happy, healthy, loving and kind to others.
Favourite quote: From the TV show “Little People, Big World,” father Matt says to son Zack: “Do you know what I love about you? Zack to his Dad: “What?” Dad to Zack: “Everything!”
Occupation: Communications Officer but currently on extended leave.
Age: ( 33
Number of children and ages: Alec 16 months
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
My life now is close to what I expected but I thought I would be a dancer. Now the only dancing I do is to Beyonce’s “Single Ladies” in my kitchen to entertain my son. He loves it!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Feeling so vulnerable…my whole world depends on Alec’s health and happiness…or getting up three times a night.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Alec’s whole world is about his “Mama” at least for now.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
I think I would say loving, compassionate and attentive.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
The best piece of advice I got was to trust my instincts. The worst piece of advice I got was to let him cry it out – not for me (see answer #6).
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
If you breastfeed, you’re nipples are going to hurt really, really bad!
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I hope Alec is a happy, healthy, loving and kind to others.
Favourite quote: From the TV show “Little People, Big World,” father Matt says to son Zack: “Do you know what I love about you? Zack to his Dad: “What?” Dad to Zack: “Everything!”
Sunday, May 23, 2010
New St. John's drop-in play group for children
Key Assests Family Resource Centre has a new drop in play program for children under 6 at 120 Lemarchant Road (the former Lawrence College building).
9:30 AM to 11:30 AM Monday and Wednesday mornings.
It's free and you can call Rhonda Taylor for more information: 726-8373
This is part of the DEEDFRI Project
9:30 AM to 11:30 AM Monday and Wednesday mornings.
It's free and you can call Rhonda Taylor for more information: 726-8373
This is part of the DEEDFRI Project
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Local Mom:Tracey M
This month St. John's toddler is celebrating Mother's Day by featuring a series of interviews with St. John's Moms of kids under five. Today's Mom is Tracey!
Occupation: Full-time mama
Age: 34
Number of children and ages: Lucinda, 4.5 years and Harrison almost 2
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
I wanted to be a veterinarian. Yet, somehow I'd say I'm still dealing with animals on a daily basis. Just of the two legged sort!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Nobody listening to you.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
All the cuddles and kisses you could want.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Patient, loving, and considerate.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
The worst was to let them cry because it would help exercise their lungs! What foolishness! And the best was to hold onto them for as long as you can because the day will come when they no longer want to be held.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
Let go of the dream of being perfect. You will not damage your child emotionally if you break down and do the one thing you swore you would never do, just once. Children are resilient and forgiving. And they don't expect you to be perfect. So it's okay to have a bad day, sometimes.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I want them to be loving, kind, thoughtful, generous, fun-spirited, creative and energetic people.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Balance, now that's a tricky thing when you parent full-time all the time. I guess I just follow my own personal interests as much as I can and foster relationships with other stay-at-home moms whom I have a lot in common with. I like to have people in my life that I can talk to about the kids and the day-to-day stuff that comes with parenting, but we can also talk about life and our thoughts as well. When you're home all day you need mental stimulation from the adult world even more!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
I read, I do yoga, I treat myself to lunch with a friend or a trip to the spa. Or I go on a date with my husband.
Occupation: Full-time mama
Age: 34
Number of children and ages: Lucinda, 4.5 years and Harrison almost 2
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
I wanted to be a veterinarian. Yet, somehow I'd say I'm still dealing with animals on a daily basis. Just of the two legged sort!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Nobody listening to you.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
All the cuddles and kisses you could want.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Patient, loving, and considerate.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
The worst was to let them cry because it would help exercise their lungs! What foolishness! And the best was to hold onto them for as long as you can because the day will come when they no longer want to be held.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
Let go of the dream of being perfect. You will not damage your child emotionally if you break down and do the one thing you swore you would never do, just once. Children are resilient and forgiving. And they don't expect you to be perfect. So it's okay to have a bad day, sometimes.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I want them to be loving, kind, thoughtful, generous, fun-spirited, creative and energetic people.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Balance, now that's a tricky thing when you parent full-time all the time. I guess I just follow my own personal interests as much as I can and foster relationships with other stay-at-home moms whom I have a lot in common with. I like to have people in my life that I can talk to about the kids and the day-to-day stuff that comes with parenting, but we can also talk about life and our thoughts as well. When you're home all day you need mental stimulation from the adult world even more!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
I read, I do yoga, I treat myself to lunch with a friend or a trip to the spa. Or I go on a date with my husband.
Friday, May 21, 2010
Good food for kids: Get some veggies in 'em!
My kid loves to dip things in sauces and dips and he loves hummous, so I am going to try this recipe for a hummous like dip made with peas. If it works I will let you know and then I will quickly seek similar recipes for carrot, spinach, sweet potato and any other veggie dips I can find to try and diversify my child's vegetable intake.
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Local Mom: Heather
As part of our month long celebration of St. John's moms, today's featured Mom is Heather .
Occupation: PhD Candidate and university English instructor
Age: 37
Number of children and ages: 1 daughter, 9 1/2 months, Basia (pronounced "Basha")
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what
did you think and how does the reality match up?
It does not match up AT ALL. Up until I was 32 I swore to everyone I met that I NEVER wanted to
1) have kids
2) marry
3) own a house
4) settle down in one place.
When I met my current husband he was the fifth NEVER - I would never marry HIM. I wanted to continue traveling and teaching all over the world. Well, I'm here as living proof that people can certainly change. All of my "nevers" have proven false, and I have never (ha ha) been happier!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Being helpless when she is hurting and crying and there's nothing you can do about it (i.e. when
she's sick, constipated, teething, etc.). Worst feeling in the world.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Cuddles!!!!! Basia gives them out rarely so they are a thing to treasure when she does really burrow into your chest and shoulder.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Child-centered yet trying not to lose focus on who I am outside of "mommy". Trying to go with the flow, let her have control of her wants/needs/life and not be controlling, yet keeping her safe and setting reasonable limits.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever
got?
Best advice was from the naturopath on how to treat nipple cracks - nothing worked until then! We're also glad we took the advice to use cloth diapers - love them! Also, to keep up with long-term breastfeeding. Worst advice was that I should introduce solids by giving her rice cereal first - talk about constipation!!!
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
That having a child is like having your heart crawl around on the floor outside of you. That all else becomes almost moot against the overwhelming love and desire to nurture this tiny, perfect child of ours. That I would be so swept up and carried away and in love. Even if someone had told me this, I could never have imagined the depths. My beautiful, beautiful girl.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Happy. Resilient. Passionate. Hardworking.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Getting out of the house as much as possible and doing things with family, friends, the university, etc. -
either with our without Basia. Just getting out of the house is important and keeping company with others. I try and keep up my hobbies. I've even started a few new ones!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Read mainly.
Occupation: PhD Candidate and university English instructor
Age: 37
Number of children and ages: 1 daughter, 9 1/2 months, Basia (pronounced "Basha")
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what
did you think and how does the reality match up?
It does not match up AT ALL. Up until I was 32 I swore to everyone I met that I NEVER wanted to
1) have kids
2) marry
3) own a house
4) settle down in one place.
When I met my current husband he was the fifth NEVER - I would never marry HIM. I wanted to continue traveling and teaching all over the world. Well, I'm here as living proof that people can certainly change. All of my "nevers" have proven false, and I have never (ha ha) been happier!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Being helpless when she is hurting and crying and there's nothing you can do about it (i.e. when
she's sick, constipated, teething, etc.). Worst feeling in the world.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Cuddles!!!!! Basia gives them out rarely so they are a thing to treasure when she does really burrow into your chest and shoulder.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Child-centered yet trying not to lose focus on who I am outside of "mommy". Trying to go with the flow, let her have control of her wants/needs/life and not be controlling, yet keeping her safe and setting reasonable limits.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever
got?
Best advice was from the naturopath on how to treat nipple cracks - nothing worked until then! We're also glad we took the advice to use cloth diapers - love them! Also, to keep up with long-term breastfeeding. Worst advice was that I should introduce solids by giving her rice cereal first - talk about constipation!!!
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
That having a child is like having your heart crawl around on the floor outside of you. That all else becomes almost moot against the overwhelming love and desire to nurture this tiny, perfect child of ours. That I would be so swept up and carried away and in love. Even if someone had told me this, I could never have imagined the depths. My beautiful, beautiful girl.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Happy. Resilient. Passionate. Hardworking.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Getting out of the house as much as possible and doing things with family, friends, the university, etc. -
either with our without Basia. Just getting out of the house is important and keeping company with others. I try and keep up my hobbies. I've even started a few new ones!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Read mainly.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Kid Friendly Vegan Food
I love to cook and I love to eat and I am trying hard to make sure my child loves food the way my husband and I do. Food opens up new worlds to you, new tastes, textures and sensations, not to mention how it helps you explore new cultures and countries.
I think it is a shame when people are afraid to try new tastes and styles of cooking because it narrows more than just your palate, but also your world view.
Anyway, to that end, when I came across Dreena Burton's blogs in a hunt for recipes one day, I thought, here are some new kinds of recipes I should give a try. Dreena is an expatriate Newfoundlander who has written a number of cookbooks for people living vegan lifestyles. She is also a mother of three, so many of her recipes are kid-friendly.
I am not vegan myself, but I enjoy meat-free meals and we are definitely trying to cut down on our red meat intake. So I emailed Dreena and she generously gave me permission to share some of her recipes with you. You can read more about her and her recipes here.
Here are some she suggested:
Super - Charge Me Cookies
Vegveeta Cheese Dip
Strawberry-Goji Smoothie
I think it is a shame when people are afraid to try new tastes and styles of cooking because it narrows more than just your palate, but also your world view.
Anyway, to that end, when I came across Dreena Burton's blogs in a hunt for recipes one day, I thought, here are some new kinds of recipes I should give a try. Dreena is an expatriate Newfoundlander who has written a number of cookbooks for people living vegan lifestyles. She is also a mother of three, so many of her recipes are kid-friendly.
I am not vegan myself, but I enjoy meat-free meals and we are definitely trying to cut down on our red meat intake. So I emailed Dreena and she generously gave me permission to share some of her recipes with you. You can read more about her and her recipes here.
Here are some she suggested:
Super - Charge Me Cookies
Vegveeta Cheese Dip
Strawberry-Goji Smoothie
Monday, May 17, 2010
We want St. John's Dads!!!
If you have been reading and enjoying the Mother's Day Local Moms profiles this month, perhaps you can help me gather some similar profiles for a June Father's Day celebration?
If you know a great local dad (with at least one child under five) send him this link and ask him if he's interested in participating. He should submit his answers to the questions below before June first.
Father’s Day Feature Questions:
Please answer the first 4 questions and then as many of the other questions as you are comfortable with. Your answers don’t have to be long, but they can be, it is up to you. Your answers can be serious or humorous. I really want everyone’s personality and individuality to shine through, so feel free to interpret the questions any way you like and have fun with this.
Also I’d love to have a picture of you and/or your kids to post with the answers to the questions, but if you are uncomfortable with that and want to submit some other kind of image to go with your post – that’s fine.
No picture at all is okay too, but if you have a sports logo, a favourite food anything like that we could use I’ll take it. Be creative.
I will only use first names in the posted profile.
Questions:
1. Name:
2. Occupation
3. Your Age: (if you want to share?)
4. Number of children and ages. If you want to give their names you can, that’s up to you.
5. When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
6. What is the hardest thing about being a Dad?
7. What is the best thing about being a Dad?
8. When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
9. All new parents get advice (sometimes more than they want!). What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
10. What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a father?
11. What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
12. How do you keep a sense of balance in your life considering the demands of parenthood, career and/or other pressures?
13. What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
14. Do you think there are different pressures and expectations for fathers as opposed to mothers? If so, what are they?
15. This last question is an open one – if you feel there is something you’d like to add that doesn’t fit the questions I have written – here’s a chance to add and answer your own question.
If you know a great local dad (with at least one child under five) send him this link and ask him if he's interested in participating. He should submit his answers to the questions below before June first.
Father’s Day Feature Questions:
Please answer the first 4 questions and then as many of the other questions as you are comfortable with. Your answers don’t have to be long, but they can be, it is up to you. Your answers can be serious or humorous. I really want everyone’s personality and individuality to shine through, so feel free to interpret the questions any way you like and have fun with this.
Also I’d love to have a picture of you and/or your kids to post with the answers to the questions, but if you are uncomfortable with that and want to submit some other kind of image to go with your post – that’s fine.
No picture at all is okay too, but if you have a sports logo, a favourite food anything like that we could use I’ll take it. Be creative.
I will only use first names in the posted profile.
Questions:
1. Name:
2. Occupation
3. Your Age: (if you want to share?)
4. Number of children and ages. If you want to give their names you can, that’s up to you.
5. When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
6. What is the hardest thing about being a Dad?
7. What is the best thing about being a Dad?
8. When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
9. All new parents get advice (sometimes more than they want!). What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
10. What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a father?
11. What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
12. How do you keep a sense of balance in your life considering the demands of parenthood, career and/or other pressures?
13. What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
14. Do you think there are different pressures and expectations for fathers as opposed to mothers? If so, what are they?
15. This last question is an open one – if you feel there is something you’d like to add that doesn’t fit the questions I have written – here’s a chance to add and answer your own question.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Local Mom: Tara
As part of our month long celebration of St. John's moms, today's featured Mom isTara
Occupation: Journalist, and maker of Mushy Peas kids toys/clothes/accessories (and some for adults, too)
Your Age: (if you want to share?) Early 30s
Number of children and ages: Malachy, 8 months
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up? Well, the end result matched up, for sure. It's the bumps along the way that I didn't count on...but it all turned out brilliantly!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom? The hardest thing for me is when Malachy is sick, even with just a little cold. Knowing he's uncomfortable and not being able to do much to make him feel better kills me.
What is the best thing about being a mom? Seeing Malachy's happy little face, and watching him grow (although I wish he wasn't growing so fast!). It's absolutely amazing that eight months ago, he was a little tiny blob that had trouble even focusing his eyes, and now he can do so much. It's incredible to watch a little person learn and develop their own personality like that.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it? I'm a fan of attachment parenting- I think it helps to foster self-esteem and a sense of security in children.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
I got a lot of great advice, especially from my sister, who is the most informed parent on the planet! I got some bad advice from others, too... like someone telling me I had to leave my baby and let him "cry it out" when he wouldn't sleep in his basinett at about a week old. One week old!
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother? That I'd never look back. I had a bit of an anxious moment about a month before Malachy was born, thinking of how my life was going to change. The thing is, once you have a child, your idea of fun changes, too. You don't mind getting up in the night or early in the morning, or any other things you think might be hard. And my life is so much more fulfilling now (although as a PS- my idea of a "spa day" has changed, too. Most days it means finding the time to wash my hair)!
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become? Happy, smart, friendly, caring, outgoing, secure.
Occupation: Journalist, and maker of Mushy Peas kids toys/clothes/accessories (and some for adults, too)
Your Age: (if you want to share?) Early 30s
Number of children and ages: Malachy, 8 months
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up? Well, the end result matched up, for sure. It's the bumps along the way that I didn't count on...but it all turned out brilliantly!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom? The hardest thing for me is when Malachy is sick, even with just a little cold. Knowing he's uncomfortable and not being able to do much to make him feel better kills me.
What is the best thing about being a mom? Seeing Malachy's happy little face, and watching him grow (although I wish he wasn't growing so fast!). It's absolutely amazing that eight months ago, he was a little tiny blob that had trouble even focusing his eyes, and now he can do so much. It's incredible to watch a little person learn and develop their own personality like that.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it? I'm a fan of attachment parenting- I think it helps to foster self-esteem and a sense of security in children.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
I got a lot of great advice, especially from my sister, who is the most informed parent on the planet! I got some bad advice from others, too... like someone telling me I had to leave my baby and let him "cry it out" when he wouldn't sleep in his basinett at about a week old. One week old!
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother? That I'd never look back. I had a bit of an anxious moment about a month before Malachy was born, thinking of how my life was going to change. The thing is, once you have a child, your idea of fun changes, too. You don't mind getting up in the night or early in the morning, or any other things you think might be hard. And my life is so much more fulfilling now (although as a PS- my idea of a "spa day" has changed, too. Most days it means finding the time to wash my hair)!
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become? Happy, smart, friendly, caring, outgoing, secure.
Friday, May 14, 2010
Local Mom: Michelle L
Today's featured local mom is Michelle L
Occupation: Owner Coo Chi Coo Baby Gear Store
Age: 30 something
Number of children and ages: 5 year old and 7 month old boys
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
Hmmmm...in terms of family.....when I was a young woman I thought I would have a gang of children, maybe 5 or so..... My energy levels would never permit it.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Sleep deprivation for sure
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The love - that overwhelming, immeasurable, crazy love you feel for a child is out of this world and bigger than I could have ever imagined.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Survival Mode...with lots of patience.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Sleep when your baby sleeps !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! REALLY
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
I don’t think anyone can tell you anything to prepare you really, I’m still learning as I go, creating our own path.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Empathetic Passionate Confident ... I already see two amazing human beings in the making.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Balance is over rated...I just do the best I can do and balance somehow follows.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
I love getting out with friends for dinner dates, or seeing some live music. Yes, a great live music show always makes me fell like I’m back in the world of adults and life before kids. Keeps me feeling Young.
Occupation: Owner Coo Chi Coo Baby Gear Store
Age: 30 something
Number of children and ages: 5 year old and 7 month old boys
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
Hmmmm...in terms of family.....when I was a young woman I thought I would have a gang of children, maybe 5 or so..... My energy levels would never permit it.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Sleep deprivation for sure
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The love - that overwhelming, immeasurable, crazy love you feel for a child is out of this world and bigger than I could have ever imagined.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Survival Mode...with lots of patience.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Sleep when your baby sleeps !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! REALLY
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
I don’t think anyone can tell you anything to prepare you really, I’m still learning as I go, creating our own path.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Empathetic Passionate Confident ... I already see two amazing human beings in the making.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Balance is over rated...I just do the best I can do and balance somehow follows.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
I love getting out with friends for dinner dates, or seeing some live music. Yes, a great live music show always makes me fell like I’m back in the world of adults and life before kids. Keeps me feeling Young.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Parenting Book Club: Update
Sorry I haven't written anything about the book lately, I have to fess up that a round of teething and hockey playoffs (yes, I said hockey) has cut into my sleeping and reading time so I haven't been progressing very far in this book.
Not to mention that if you read the previous Book Club items you'll know that I think the book is okay but not fantastic. The concepts are good, but the execution is weak.
That being said, I have gotten to a section towards the end that seems to offer some practical parenting advice and I do like the overall themes of thoughtful, holistic parenting and not gimicky rules and tricks that may provide short term results in behaviour modification, but don't give your child a moral foundation for self-control or empower them.
So my apologies and hopefully my lag on this will give everyone else a chance to catch up... If anyone else has thoughts they'd like to add to the discussion, please put them in the comments section.
Not to mention that if you read the previous Book Club items you'll know that I think the book is okay but not fantastic. The concepts are good, but the execution is weak.
That being said, I have gotten to a section towards the end that seems to offer some practical parenting advice and I do like the overall themes of thoughtful, holistic parenting and not gimicky rules and tricks that may provide short term results in behaviour modification, but don't give your child a moral foundation for self-control or empower them.
So my apologies and hopefully my lag on this will give everyone else a chance to catch up... If anyone else has thoughts they'd like to add to the discussion, please put them in the comments section.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
Birthday: Cakes for Kids
A St. John's Toddler reader sent me the following list of Birthday Cake makers. If you have had a cake from one of these bakers, please submit a review in the comments section or if you are one of these Cake bakers and want to send me more information - please do!
Cakes by Katherine - She has a facebook group too and she has done some pretty neat cakes.
Cakes by Tom - He will do egg and peanut-free cakes. It's hard to find anyone who will guarantee this...he does lots of different character cakes.
Cakes by Linda Kean. She does great cakes. She has a group on facebook as well. Linda Kean – 726-1122
Cakes by Katherine - She has a facebook group too and she has done some pretty neat cakes.
Cakes by Tom - He will do egg and peanut-free cakes. It's hard to find anyone who will guarantee this...he does lots of different character cakes.
Cakes by Linda Kean. She does great cakes. She has a group on facebook as well. Linda Kean – 726-1122
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Local Mom: Michelle O
As part of our month long celebration of St. John's moms, today's featured Mom is Michelle!
Occupation: Mom/Communications coordinator
Age: 40
Number of children and ages:
Jaxon, 7
Simon, 3
Julian, 1
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
I thought I would be travelling/changing the world and making it a better place for other people's children. Reality is something different. I have hardly travelled (I didn't realize it cost so much to be a free spirit!) and now I watch how other people change the world for my children while I try and steal 10 minutes here and there to go to the grocery store by myself.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Lack of personal space. Without a doubt.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Loving someone so much that it's overwhelming sometimes. It's like nothing else.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Learning curve. I'm learning every day how to parent. Often, when I figure out the solution, the problem is over and we're on to a new one.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
How you'd hardly EVER leave the house again, let alone get on an airplane and experience life outside your world.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Kind, thoughtful and respectful people. Everything else is secondary.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Friends help a lot. We can talk about parenting or talk about anything BUT parenting, which is often what I need. It also works to my advantage that I'm the only girl in my house full of boys. It means I'm a very unique individual within my family and that often helps me with emotional solitude.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Go to the grocery store by myself :)
This last question is an open one – if you feel there is something you’d like to add that doesn’t fit into the questions I have written – here’s a chance to add and answer your own question.
I have lots of questions but no answers :)
Occupation: Mom/Communications coordinator
Age: 40
Number of children and ages:
Jaxon, 7
Simon, 3
Julian, 1
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
I thought I would be travelling/changing the world and making it a better place for other people's children. Reality is something different. I have hardly travelled (I didn't realize it cost so much to be a free spirit!) and now I watch how other people change the world for my children while I try and steal 10 minutes here and there to go to the grocery store by myself.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Lack of personal space. Without a doubt.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Loving someone so much that it's overwhelming sometimes. It's like nothing else.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Learning curve. I'm learning every day how to parent. Often, when I figure out the solution, the problem is over and we're on to a new one.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
How you'd hardly EVER leave the house again, let alone get on an airplane and experience life outside your world.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Kind, thoughtful and respectful people. Everything else is secondary.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
Friends help a lot. We can talk about parenting or talk about anything BUT parenting, which is often what I need. It also works to my advantage that I'm the only girl in my house full of boys. It means I'm a very unique individual within my family and that often helps me with emotional solitude.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Go to the grocery store by myself :)
This last question is an open one – if you feel there is something you’d like to add that doesn’t fit into the questions I have written – here’s a chance to add and answer your own question.
I have lots of questions but no answers :)
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Local Moms: Sheilagh
Occupation: Art Photographer/ City Councillor
Age: 45
Three children: Eamon, 14, Maren, 12 and Eoin, 5.
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
I thought I would become a doctor, a midwife or a marine biologist because I was so fascinated with human and marine life. Never thought beyond that.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Being the enforcer and showing you love them all at once.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Seeing what beautiful people they have become, with a little help ;-)
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
tough and open love.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Talk openly to your children, set down rules and stick to them, and demand respect for all people.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
That you'd be too tired to do all the same fun stuff, even if you have the babysitter lined up!
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
responsible, respectful, and happy in their lives.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
This is a constant battle for me... always trying to create a balance between being a good parent to my kids and my professional life, which I take quite seriously. I am pretty good at juggling all the balls, but every now and then, I need an out.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
hike, camp, go to the sea, travel, and hang with friends who make me laugh.
This last question is an open one – if you feel there is something you’d like to add that doesn’t fit into the questions I have written – here’s a chance to add and answer your own question:
Would you do it all again?
In a heartbeat. Being a mother is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I feel blessed every day, even in amongst the frustration.
Friday, May 7, 2010
Local Mom: Ellen Rae
In celebration of Mother's Day, for the entire month of May we'll be featuring local St. John's moms of children under five. Today's featured mom is Ellen!
Occupation: Veterinarian
Age: 34
Number of children and ages: Twin girls, age 2.5 and 2 step-kids, 16 and 18
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Finding patience when my patience is wearing thin
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Feeling loved and needed, cuddling up
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Best piece of advice is a tie: take care of yourself and pick your battles
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Smart, generous, loving and fun
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
By not obsessing over parenting issues, exercise, participating in book club, and by having good babysitters, so we can get out!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Spa therapy: pedicure, massage, whatever I can get
Wish the answers were wittier, but I think they're true to life, anyways.
Occupation: Veterinarian
Age: 34
Number of children and ages: Twin girls, age 2.5 and 2 step-kids, 16 and 18
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Finding patience when my patience is wearing thin
What is the best thing about being a mom?
Feeling loved and needed, cuddling up
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Best piece of advice is a tie: take care of yourself and pick your battles
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Smart, generous, loving and fun
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
By not obsessing over parenting issues, exercise, participating in book club, and by having good babysitters, so we can get out!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Spa therapy: pedicure, massage, whatever I can get
Wish the answers were wittier, but I think they're true to life, anyways.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Good Gear
I have some good quality baby and children's gear that I need to get rid of to clear some space in the attic. So occasionally I am going to post it here on the new page I created called 'Good Gear.' See the tab at the top of the page.
If you have some items you want to buy, trade or sell - send me an email and I can post them there as well. Be sure to include your email address or other contact information.
If you have some items you want to buy, trade or sell - send me an email and I can post them there as well. Be sure to include your email address or other contact information.
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Local Mom: Jennifer
For the Month of May we'll be celebrating Local Moms of kids under five in honour of Mother's Day. Today's featured Local Mom is Jennifer!
Occupation: mainly picking stuff up off the floor.
Age: 37 (that's mom years, so I'm actually 103).
Number of children and ages: 3 boys, Max is 5, Charlie is 3 and Rudi is 8 months old.
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
My plan was to be an International Woman of Mystery and Intrigue. Details were vague, but involved having unlimited amounts of money and jetting around the world. I feel that I am still an International Woman of Mystery and Intrigue, however I have a limited amount of cash and I do not jet around the world.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
The hardest thing about being a mom, especially a full time stay at home mom, is maintaining a decent reserve of patience to deal with the many irritating things that small children do (like not listen to anything, ever) and also mustering up the enthusiasm to happily participate in the many boring things small children require of you (like pretending to be SpongeBob Squarepants AGAIN, when I'd really rather drink a cup of tea and read the back of the cereal box.)
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The best thing about being a mom is watching my children grow into kind, capable and intelligent people, and having all the hugs a person could ever hope for!
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
I have four words for you. Lord of the Flies.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Some advice I appreciated was to put them to sleep after the first yawn or sign of tiredness when they are babies, don't wait for them to melt down and cry. Worst advice was probably from the lady at the supermarket who told a 9 months pregnant me, as I was reaching for a box of cereal, that I would strangle the baby on "hees cord" if I lifted my arms over my head.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
If you have any urge to play strip poker, do it now, because after baby, it probably won't be happening.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I hope my children grow up happy with themselves and the world and that the world will delight in them and keep them safe forever. I hope they will help themselves and I hope they will help other people. I hope they will not back down in difficult circumstances, I hope they will follow their dreams and I hope that no matter what happens on their life's journey that they will do more laughing than crying.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
I have no sense of balance in my life whatsoever.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
If I really need to get away from it all I sit on the front step and drink a cup of tea.
Occupation: mainly picking stuff up off the floor.
Age: 37 (that's mom years, so I'm actually 103).
Number of children and ages: 3 boys, Max is 5, Charlie is 3 and Rudi is 8 months old.
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
My plan was to be an International Woman of Mystery and Intrigue. Details were vague, but involved having unlimited amounts of money and jetting around the world. I feel that I am still an International Woman of Mystery and Intrigue, however I have a limited amount of cash and I do not jet around the world.
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
The hardest thing about being a mom, especially a full time stay at home mom, is maintaining a decent reserve of patience to deal with the many irritating things that small children do (like not listen to anything, ever) and also mustering up the enthusiasm to happily participate in the many boring things small children require of you (like pretending to be SpongeBob Squarepants AGAIN, when I'd really rather drink a cup of tea and read the back of the cereal box.)
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The best thing about being a mom is watching my children grow into kind, capable and intelligent people, and having all the hugs a person could ever hope for!
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
I have four words for you. Lord of the Flies.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
Some advice I appreciated was to put them to sleep after the first yawn or sign of tiredness when they are babies, don't wait for them to melt down and cry. Worst advice was probably from the lady at the supermarket who told a 9 months pregnant me, as I was reaching for a box of cereal, that I would strangle the baby on "hees cord" if I lifted my arms over my head.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
If you have any urge to play strip poker, do it now, because after baby, it probably won't be happening.
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I hope my children grow up happy with themselves and the world and that the world will delight in them and keep them safe forever. I hope they will help themselves and I hope they will help other people. I hope they will not back down in difficult circumstances, I hope they will follow their dreams and I hope that no matter what happens on their life's journey that they will do more laughing than crying.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
I have no sense of balance in my life whatsoever.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
If I really need to get away from it all I sit on the front step and drink a cup of tea.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Fee: Music Classes for Children in Torbay area
Got an email this week about some kids music classes so I thought I'd share the news.Monday, May 3, 2010
Local Mom: Kelly
In celebration of Mother's Day, for the entire month of May we'll be featuring local moms of preschoolers and toddlers.
Today's Featured Mom is Kelly!
Occupation: Perennial student…this time, medical student.
Age: 38.
Number of children and ages: Four: Darragh 13, Molly 10, Aoife 6, Tadhg 3
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up
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What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
For me it’s Mornings! I am so NOT a morning person but as a mom you have to function anyway - get everyone up, dressed, fed, organized, bums changed, teeth brushed, hair done, permission slips signed, lunches packed, ballet shoes found – you just can’t opt out!
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The unconditional love you have for your kids and they for you in return. I never knew such all-encompassing, selfless love existed. Not to mention their warm, sweet bodies as they melt into your loving arms. I could stay there forever but unfortunately they won’t have it.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Attachment parenting peppered with alternative spells of smothering and benign neglect…”go play now okay momma’s got to study” …”Can someone wipe Tadhg’s bum I’m in the middle of something” …etc.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
I had my first child in the Edinburgh. I was working in a fair trade shop, which was a bit of a hub for alternative people and lifestyles in the city. There I met some remarkable moms who introduced me to the movement that is midwifery, home birth, breastfeeding, attachment parenting, baby wearing, the family bed, real food, and natural childhood. It held intuitive appeal for us and we went for it, although we didn’t have much of a clue about anything! Fourteen years and four amazing kids later there is now a ton of health and neuroscience research to back this up and I am so grateful for that advice.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
Something about the omnipresent guilt that is motherhood…What’s with that?
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Mostly just happy, but of they are also disposed to healthy relationships, lots of children, good food, social activism, well that would be dandy!
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
For me it’s been school. Part way through my first mat leave I knew that this thing called motherhood could swallow me whole so when baby number two was seven weeks old I started my masters. I’ve been in school ever since. The student life is great as it has given me the flexibility to be the kind of mom I want while keeping other parts of me alive as well. 100% motherhood is the hardest job in the word and I have a lot of respect for the superwomen all around me who embrace it full on everyday.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Study. As sad as this sounds it is my time to myself and on the plus side I find it invokes pity in others towards me rather than scorn, as frequent spa vacations might, which really seems to help with the guilt :o)
Today's Featured Mom is Kelly!
Occupation: Perennial student…this time, medical student.
Age: 38.
Number of children and ages: Four: Darragh 13, Molly 10, Aoife 6, Tadhg 3
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up
??????????
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
For me it’s Mornings! I am so NOT a morning person but as a mom you have to function anyway - get everyone up, dressed, fed, organized, bums changed, teeth brushed, hair done, permission slips signed, lunches packed, ballet shoes found – you just can’t opt out!
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The unconditional love you have for your kids and they for you in return. I never knew such all-encompassing, selfless love existed. Not to mention their warm, sweet bodies as they melt into your loving arms. I could stay there forever but unfortunately they won’t have it.
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Attachment parenting peppered with alternative spells of smothering and benign neglect…”go play now okay momma’s got to study” …”Can someone wipe Tadhg’s bum I’m in the middle of something” …etc.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got?
I had my first child in the Edinburgh. I was working in a fair trade shop, which was a bit of a hub for alternative people and lifestyles in the city. There I met some remarkable moms who introduced me to the movement that is midwifery, home birth, breastfeeding, attachment parenting, baby wearing, the family bed, real food, and natural childhood. It held intuitive appeal for us and we went for it, although we didn’t have much of a clue about anything! Fourteen years and four amazing kids later there is now a ton of health and neuroscience research to back this up and I am so grateful for that advice.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
Something about the omnipresent guilt that is motherhood…What’s with that?
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
Mostly just happy, but of they are also disposed to healthy relationships, lots of children, good food, social activism, well that would be dandy!
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
For me it’s been school. Part way through my first mat leave I knew that this thing called motherhood could swallow me whole so when baby number two was seven weeks old I started my masters. I’ve been in school ever since. The student life is great as it has given me the flexibility to be the kind of mom I want while keeping other parts of me alive as well. 100% motherhood is the hardest job in the word and I have a lot of respect for the superwomen all around me who embrace it full on everyday.
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Study. As sad as this sounds it is my time to myself and on the plus side I find it invokes pity in others towards me rather than scorn, as frequent spa vacations might, which really seems to help with the guilt :o)
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Product: Little Life Daypacks
Thanks to the Travel Bug the prize for May's contest is one of these adorable Littlelife toddler-size day packs. This little pack is as cute as a bug! They come in several colours and styles. The quality is excellent, the straps are padded for comfort and there is a safety 'reign' included - a little wrist band that links you and your child to use in crowded airports where little people can get disoriented or wander away in a crowd. To enter, become a Follower of the blog and your name will be added to the draw at the end of the month.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Local Mom: Linda
In celebration of Mother's Day, for the entire month of May we'll be featuring local moms of preschoolers and toddlers.
Today's Featured Mom is Linda!
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Losing my hair and gaining a muffin top.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The new feeling of fulfillment and hearing the word "Mama".
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Sensible.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
The best piece of advice i got from my Doctor and she said to follow your gut.....No really bad advice to speak of.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
That you will lose yourself....but you will also reinvent yourself!
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I hope my son uses his knowledge wisely, is kind to people and finds happiness in the things he choses to do.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
I don't ! I have committed to two years being a full time Mom so nap times are golden!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Bathe.....
Today's Featured Mom is Linda!
Occupation: Non- practicing Chef.
Age: 41
Age: 41
Children: One 14 month old lovely boy.
When you were a teenager and you thought about your future life what did you think and how does the reality match up?
I thought my future would be being a Mother and having a lovely man by my side......bingo!
What is the hardest thing about being a mom?
Losing my hair and gaining a muffin top.
What is the best thing about being a mom?
The new feeling of fulfillment and hearing the word "Mama".
When you think about your parenting style, what words would you use to describe it?
Sensible.
All new mothers get lots of parenting advice, sometimes more than they want! What was some advice that you appreciated and would pass on to others, or alternatively, what was the worst piece of advice you ever got ?
The best piece of advice i got from my Doctor and she said to follow your gut.....No really bad advice to speak of.
What is the one thing you wish someone had told you before you became a mother?
That you will lose yourself....but you will also reinvent yourself!
What kind of grown-ups do you hope your children will become?
I hope my son uses his knowledge wisely, is kind to people and finds happiness in the things he choses to do.
How do you keep a sense of balance in your life between being a mother and a person in your own right, or between your career and family (if you work outside the home)?
I don't ! I have committed to two years being a full time Mom so nap times are golden!
What do you do to ‘get away from it all’?
Bathe.....
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